Hey, darling,

Welcome back to the blog! So… you know those days when you’re standing at a crossroads, trying to make the right decision, and your mind is telling you one thing while your heart is pulling you in a completely different direction? Yeah, I’ve been there, and it’s no joke. It’s like you know exactly what you should do, but then your flesh starts whispering, “Just this once won’t hurt. God will forgive you.”

And suddenly, those temptations feel like they might just be the answer. You’ve got that voice in your head, maybe it sounds like the world, maybe it sounds like your own frustrations, telling you to take the easy road, the shortcut, the instant gratification. It’s the same old tug-of-war between what we know God desires for us and what feels like relief at the moment.

I can speak from experience here because, trust me, I’ve had those moments. When life feels heavy, or the wait feels long, or the stress of trying to make the “right” choice feels overwhelming, it’s so tempting to give in. But here’s the truth I’ve had to remind myself of time and time again: we can’t afford to compromise.

Every time we face a temptation, we’re choosing between two paths: one that might feel good for a second but will cost us in the long run, and one that leads to eternal joy, even if it means making tough choices in the present. So, I wanted to open my heart to you today, to be honest about my struggles, because I know I’m not the only one wrestling with this. We all are. This journey of walking with God and saying “no” to our flesh? It’s not easy. But, darling, it’s worth it. And I want to walk through it with you today.

So grab your favourite drink (I’m over here with a cup of tea) and let’s dive into why compromise is never the answer. You’ve got this, and I’m right here cheering you on as we take this journey together.

The Battle Between Flesh and Spirit

One of the greatest struggles we face as Christians is this ongoing battle between the flesh and the Spirit. Galatians 5:16 reminds us: “So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh.”

The flesh often whispers lies to us:

• “Just this once won’t hurt.”
• “You can always ask for forgiveness later.”
• “It’s not that big of a deal.”

But deep down, we know better. The Holy Spirit convicts us, and we can’t unhear His voice. Every choice we make either draws us closer to God or pulls us away.

I was recently reminded of this in my own walk. I found myself at a point where I was tempted to settle for less than God’s best for me. I justified it, thinking, “But I’m tired of waiting. I deserve this.” But the truth is, anything outside of God’s will comes with a cost I’m not willing to pay.

Count the Cost

When we compromise, we trade eternal blessings for temporary satisfaction. Remember the story of Esau in Genesis 25? He sold his birthright for a bowl of stew. At the moment, it seemed worth it because he was hungry. But later, he realised the gravity of what he had lost.

Let’s not make the same mistake. Sin may offer short-term pleasure, but it brings long-term consequences. Romans 6:23 warns us: “For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

Why We Can’t Compromise

1. God Calls Us to Be Set Apart
   As Christians, we are called to stand out, not fit in. 1 Peter 2:9 reminds us that we are “a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession.” That means we don’t follow the crowd. We follow Christ.
2. Compromise Weakens Our Witness
   Our actions speak louder than our words. When we compromise, we risk damaging our testimony and leading others astray. Ephesians 5:11 says, “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.”
3. Obedience Is an Act of Love
   Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commands” (John 14:15). Obedience isn’t about following rules; it’s about showing our love and devotion to the One who gave everything for us.

Staying Firm in Faith

If you’re struggling with compromise today, here are a few steps to help you stay firm:

• Pray for Strength: Ask God to help you resist temptation and remain faithful. Philippians 4:13 reminds us that we can do all things through Christ who strengthens us.
• Get in the Word: The Bible is our weapon against the lies of the enemy. When Jesus was tempted in the wilderness, He responded with Scripture (Matthew 4:1–11).
• Surround Yourself with a Godly Community: Accountability is key. Find friends who will encourage you to stay on the path God has called you to.
• Focus on Eternity: Remember, this life is temporary. The rewards of obedience far outweigh the fleeting pleasures of sin.

No Turning Back

One of my favourite passages is Philippians 3:8, where Paul says: “I consider everything a loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord.” When we truly grasp the beauty of walking with God, nothing else compares.

So, my challenge to you (and myself) is this: let’s commit to living fully for Him, no matter the cost. Let’s refuse to compromise, knowing that obedience is always worth it.

Stay encouraged, God sees your efforts, and He honours your faithfulness. You’re not alone in this walk. We’re in it together.

Well, darling, here we are. We’ve come to the end of this conversation, and I just want to take a moment to remind you of something so important: you are not alone in this fight. If you’ve been struggling with compromise, whether it’s a big decision or a little temptation here and there, please know that I am with you in this. We are all walking this road together, facing the same struggles, yet holding on to the same truth. And the best part? The truth of God’s promises is stronger than any pull the world can offer.

There have been times in my life when I’ve been at that tipping point, thinking, “Maybe just this one time won’t matter. I’m so tired of waiting.” But every single time, when I’ve chosen God’s path even when it wasn’t easy, I’ve seen His faithfulness on the other side. It’s never been immediate gratification, but it’s always been the deep, lasting peace that comes from obeying Him. That’s the reward I want to encourage you to hold on to today.

You might be tempted to think that the easy way will bring you relief, but I promise you, it won’t. The true relief comes from knowing you’ve chosen the best thing, the thing that brings you closer to God, to His will, and to the abundant life He has for you. And listen, I know it’s hard. Life can feel heavy. But the beauty of walking in God’s truth is that every step of obedience brings us closer to the kind of joy that can only be found in Him. And that, my darling, is worth the wait.

Before I stop typing, let’s pause and pray. Sometimes, it’s in these moments of prayer that we truly lay our burdens down, so I’m praying with you.

Let’s pray together:

Father, thank You for Your grace and mercy. Thank You that You don’t ask us to walk this road alone. You are our strength, our guide, and our refuge. Help us to resist the pull of compromise, no matter how tempting it may be. Empower us to stay firm in our faith and remind us that Your way is always the best way. When we are weary, give us the strength to keep going, knowing that Your promises are true. We love You, Lord, and we want to live lives that honour You. In Jesus name, amen.

Keep going. Keep walking in obedience. God sees your efforts, and He honours your faithfulness. You are not alone on this journey. We are in this together.

Sending blessings to you!

Scherise. X