Hello, my darling!
Welcome back to the blog! I’m sitting in my cosy living room this morning, wrapped in my soft, oversized cardigan, with a fresh cup of hazelnut coffee by my side. The morning light is gently streaming through the window, and the house is quiet just me, my thoughts, and a moment of peace before the day gets going. I just got back from dropping Keyana off at nursery, (she now goes part-time) and I’m feeling so thankful for this little “me time.” On the way there, I was blasting worship music and reflecting on the goodness of God in my life. It’s these little moments of stillness that help me reset and find gratitude in the busyness.
I’m so grateful for all of you who take time out of your day to check in on the blog. Your support truly means the world to me, and it’s a blessing to share this space with you.
Today, I wanted to talk about something that has been on my heart lately—God’s plan for my life and how it’s unfolded in ways I never imagined. It’s honestly humbling to look back and reflect on where I’ve been and where I am now. There were times when I felt like I was stumbling through life, trying to figure things out on my own. But I’ve come to realise that God’s plan is so much better than anything I could’ve dreamed up.
Looking back, I can see how His plan has woven through every part of my journey—through relationships, motherhood, my faith, and even my work. Each step has been a part of His greater purpose, even when it didn’t make sense at the time. And that brings me so much peace as I walk forward into what He has next.
As a parent, one thing that has been really challenging for me is managing the overwhelming amount of stuff that seems to accumulate, especially toys. Between birthdays, holidays, and spontaneous gift-giving, our house can quickly become overrun with toys. And as much as I want to give my child everything she could possibly want, I’ve come to realise that there’s a better way to approach it, one that honours both the space we live in and the joy that comes from simpler things.
One shift we made in our home was starting a toy rotation system. It’s simple but has made such a difference in how we manage the toys and the clutter. Here’s how it works: instead of keeping all the toys out all the time, I rotate a selection of toys every couple of weeks. Not only does this keep the house less cluttered, but it also keeps the toys feeling new and exciting for my daughter.
Here are some of the toys I try to rotate regularly to keep things fresh and fun:
- Something to Build: Toys like mega blocks, wooden blocks, and Magna Tiles are great for sparking creativity and developing fine motor skills. These toys never seem to lose their charm and provide endless possibilities for imaginative play.
- Something to Move: Toys that encourage active play, like cars, and jeeps (my daughter actually loves to sit on them and scoot herself around the room, haha! These are a hit in our house. These can be used alongside building toys to create fun play scenes and keep the kids moving.
- Someone to Play With: Dolls, action figures, and stuffed animals help encourage pretend play. They spark creativity in ways that other toys can’t.
- Something to Create: We love to have art supplies, and craft kits on hand. I try to rotate these regularly to keep her engaged in creative projects.
- Something to Explore/Love: Pretend play items like kitchens, and doctor kits are favourites in our home. Not only do they foster creativity, but they also allow us to connect as a family through role-playing.
Also, just a quick note: I tend to not let my daughter watch a lot of TV. In fact, most days she doesn’t watch any. So having exciting toys really helps with this, or simply getting out in nature.
I know that in a world where we’re constantly surrounded by new things, it can be hard to resist the temptation to buy more. But I’ve learned that there’s no harm in having things that bring joy, as long as we’re mindful about what we bring into our homes. It’s about finding balance, about enjoying the blessings we have without letting them take over our lives.
And sometimes, letting go is just as important as holding on. I’ve gotten into the habit of donating toys that we no longer use, so they can go on to bless another child who needs them.
A few years ago, we had to say goodbye to a sentimental item: our family car. It was more than just a vehicle; it held so many memories. But even though I miss it, I’ve come to realise that material things are just that—things. They come and go. What really matters is the love and memories we create, and the joy we experience together. Whether it’s toys, furniture, or cars, the most important thing is how we use them and what we do with them.
Finally, I’m always reminded that less can be more. We don’t need a house full of things to create a home full of love. The simplest toys often bring the most joy and allow my daughter to use her imagination in ways that the newest tech never could. So, whether you’re in the process of decluttering or just trying to be more intentional with what you have, I encourage you to focus on the things that really matter, things that bring joy, and creativity, and create lasting memories.
Thanks for joining me today, friends. I hope this blog post inspires you to be intentional with your possessions, and create a space that nurtures love and connection. God’s plan for us is always greater than we can imagine, and it’s a blessing to walk in that truth each day.
Until next time, take care and I am sending blessings to you! 💖
Scherise. X
