Hello, my darling,

Welcome back to the blog! Today, I’m all cosied up in my conservatory, my favourite spot in the house. I’m sipping a steaming cup of hot chocolate, rich and creamy with a sprinkle of cinnamon, and it’s the perfect way to start a peaceful Saturday morning.

As I sit here, reflecting on life, I’ve been thinking about how my home and family life sometimes feel like running a little family “business.” Even though it’s just my husband, our three-year-old daughter, and me, we each play our part in keeping our home happy and running smoothly. Here’s how I see it: our home is a little business, and we’re a family team working together to make it all work.

Finding Balance

I’ve learned that having some organisation in our home makes a huge difference, especially with a toddler in the mix! Simple routines help keep things flowing smoothly and bring a bit of calm to the day.

For example, our evening routine helps make bedtime easier for everyone. After dinner, we do a quick tidy-up together, then it’s bath time, followed by cuddles and a bedtime story. This predictable little routine helps my daughter settle down, and it gives my husband and me some time to unwind afterwards. Even when things are a little chaotic, sticking to these routines keeps us grounded and brings a sense of calm to our family.

Every Little Effort Counts

With just the three of us, teamwork might look a bit different than in a bigger family, but every effort counts. My husband and I split up tasks, each taking what we’re best at, he handles outdoor jobs, tech and repairs, while I focus on family meals and keeping our schedules and finances organised. Even our little one joins in, with small tasks like putting her toys away or helping set the table (in her own adorable way).

For instance, she loves “helping” with laundry by handing us clothes or pressing buttons on the washing machine. These little moments make her feel included, and I love that she’s learning that being part of a family means pitching in, even in tiny ways.

Staying Flexible

One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned as a mum is to be open. Toddlers are unpredictable, and not everything goes to plan! If something doesn’t work out, I remind myself to let go and focus on what’s next.

For example, if we plan an outing but my daughter is fussy or not feeling it, we just switch gears and do something quieter. Staying flexible has saved me so much stress and helps us enjoy our time together more. Instead of focusing on everything going “right,” I focus on making the best of whatever comes our way.

Building a Foundation of Love and Respect

Love and respect are at the heart of everything we do. My husband and I try to connect every day, even if it’s just a quick catch-up chat after our daughter is in bed. This daily routine keeps us close and reminds us that we’re a team.

Our daughter sees this, too, in small ways. She watches us work together, share responsibilities, and show patience, and it’s my hope that she’s learning to cherish those same qualities. Even at her young age, she’s soaking up these moments, and they’re building the foundation for how she sees relationships.

Celebrating the Small Wins

In the everyday life of parenting, every little milestone and small win is worth celebrating. Whether it’s getting through the day with minimal mess, having a happy family dinner, or just making it through a busy week, we try to pause and appreciate those moments. It’s these little victories that keep us going and remind us to be grateful for all that we have.

Running a home with my little family might not be glamorous, but I wouldn’t trade it for anything. There’s so much joy in these small moments, and together we’re creating something beautiful, one day at a time.

Sending blessings your way,
Scherise. X