Hey Darling,

Welcome back to the blog! It’s a Friday evening, and the house is finally quiet. The dishes are done, my daughter is fast asleep, and I’m sitting on my sofa laptop on a stand, with a lot to share with you. As I thunk about my week, I realise how often little things, like someone cutting me off in traffic, a passive-aggressive comment, or even my own self-doubt, have tried to steal my peace.

Peace isn’t something that magically appears when life is perfect. It’s something we have to actively protect, every single day. I have had moments where I felt like peace was slipping through my fingers, and I had to dig deep into God’s Word to remind myself of the truth, peace is a gift from God, but it’s up to us to hold onto it.

As I poured my heart into this blog post, I couldn’t help but think about how many of us, especially as women, feel stretched thin, worn out, and like we’re fighting battles on all sides. If that’s where you are right now, take a deep breath. This message is for you.

 

The Battle Isn’t with People, It’s with the Forces Behind Them

One of the key truths I’ve come to realise is that our true battle isn’t against people, it’s against the spiritual forces at work in the world. As scripture tells us, our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against, powers, and spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). This is something that can often be hard to grasp, especially when someone hurts us or causes chaos in our lives. But when we recognise that there’s more going on behind the scenes than what we see with our eyes, we can handle life’s challenges better.

I know it’s tempting to fight fire with fire or to hold onto bitterness when someone wrongs you. But we have to remember, the enemy is using people to disrupt our peace. When we focus on the person, we lose sight of the bigger picture. Instead of responding with anger or frustration, we need to put our focus on God and allow Him to fight our battles.

The Power of Saying “No” to the Enemy

This brings me to the next point, we have the authority to say “no” to anything that steals our peace. When we recognise that something, whether it’s a person, a thought, or a situation, is threatening our inner peace, we can exercise our spiritual authority and refuse to let it consume us.

Saying “no” might look like setting boundaries with people who drain your energy, refusing to entertain negative thoughts, or choosing to let go of things that don’t glorify God. It’s about taking control of your peace and not allowing anything to rob it. God has given us the power to protect our peace, and we can stand firm in that.

Spiritual Warfare and Mental Health

Our minds truly are a battleground. I’ve experienced firsthand how spiritual warfare can affect our mental health. The enemy wants to control our thoughts, lead us into negative patterns of thinking, and make us believe lies about ourselves. But we have to fight back with the truth of God’s Word. I encourage you to take captive every thought that goes against the truth of who you are in Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5). This is how we protect our peace, by rejecting anything that doesn’t align with God’s truth.

Remember, just because something is screaming for your attention doesn’t mean you have to focus on it. In fact, distractions, negativity, and chaos are often tools the enemy uses to steal your peace. The Lord, however, speaks in a gentle whisper (1 Kings 19:12). When we focus on His voice, we can find peace even in the middle of storms.

Speaking Up for Your Boundaries

Sometimes, protecting your peace requires you to speak up. Setting boundaries is essential to maintaining mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. It can be uncomfortable at first, but I’ve learned that being clear about your boundaries is an act of self-care and obedience to God. You don’t have to keep silent or allow toxic behaviours to continue just because it’s easier. In fact, silence can sometimes create resentment, which can poison your peace.

Remember, you have every right to speak up and defend your peace. Whether it’s telling someone you need space, saying “no” to a request, or walking away from a toxic situation, you are not being selfish you are protecting the peace God has given you.

How to Stay Centered in Peace

So how do you protect your peace on a daily basis? Here are a few practical tips:

1. Daily Prayer and Worship: Start your day by connecting with God. Prayer and worship are powerful tools for staying in peace. When we invite God into our hearts and minds, we invite His peace to rule over every part of us.
2. Guard Your Thoughts: Be mindful of the thoughts you allow to take root in your mind. The enemy will try to plant seeds of doubt, fear, and negativity. But you can replace those thoughts with God’s Word and promises.
3. Set Boundaries: Know your limits. Protect your time, energy, and emotional well-being by setting healthy boundaries with people and situations.
4. Trust in God’s Protection: Remember that you don’t have to fight alone. God is with you, and He promises to protect you from the enemy’s attacks. Rest in His peace and trust in His plan for your life.
5. Let Go of Control: Sometimes, protecting your peace means letting go of the need to control every situation. Trust God to work things out in His timing and His way.

Peace isn’t just a feeling; it’s a gift from God. And just like any precious gift, it’s worth protecting. When you choose to guard your peace, you are choosing to live in alignment with God’s will for your life. So, the next time you feel your peace being attacked, remember that you have the authority to say “no” to the enemy, set boundaries, and trust God to guard your heart and mind.

I pray that you experience God’s peace in a deeper way today and that you stand firm in your faith, knowing that He is your protector and your peacekeeper. Keep shining, keep standing strong, and keep guarding your peace.

Let me tell you a quick story before we wrap up. Just the other day, my daughter was playing with her favourite toy, and another child tried to grab it from her. She held on tightly, not in anger, but because she knew it was hers. Watching her, I thought, That’s how we need to be with our peace. We don’t have to be aggressive or defensive, but we do need to hold onto it firmly, because we know it’s a gift from God that’s worth protecting.

Protecting your peace doesn’t mean running away from life’s challenges or avoiding hard conversations. It means setting boundaries where they’re needed, saying “no” when something doesn’t align with God’s plan for you, and spending intentional time in His presence to refill your cup. It’s about learning to walk through storms without letting them take root in your heart.

So this week, I want you to try something simple. When life starts to feel overwhelming, pause. Take a moment to pray, to breathe, and to remind yourself that God’s peace is already yours. Don’t let the noise of the world drown out His voice.

And if no one has told you this lately, let me be the first: you’re doing better than you think. God sees you, and He’s proud of the way you’re showing up, even on the hard days.

Until next time, keep holding onto His peace and trusting in His plan. You’ve got this because He’s got you.

If this message resonated with you, I’d love to hear your thoughts. Let’s continue to encourage each other on this journey of faith and peace.

Sending blessings your way!

Scherise.X