Hello, my darling!

Welcome back to the blog! Grab your cup of tea and settle in because this one’s going to be a bit of a journey. You know how you wake up in the morning, look in the mirror, and start that mental checklist of things to “fix” before you head out the door? A bit of concealer here, a swipe of mascara there, and maybe, just maybe, you might throw on a little red lipstick for good measure. I used to think beauty was all about checking off that list, making sure I was “done up” enough to face the world.

But something happened recently – and I’ll tell you, it wasn’t just a new makeup technique I stumbled across on YouTube. (Although I do love me a good beauty tutorial!). God decided to shake me up a bit and reveal that there’s more to beauty than all the layers we slap on in the morning. In fact, He’s been showing me that true beauty has nothing to do with how well we blend our eyeshadow or whether we’re rocking the latest trend. It’s about what’s going on in here (points to heart), not just here (points to face).

And I’ll be honest with you, this realisation didn’t come easy. I’ve had to unlearn a lot of things – and that’s not just about my makeup bag. It’s about the way I see myself, the way I’ve been taught to measure beauty, and what God’s been revealing to me along the way. So, keep reading as I talk about how my relationship with makeup, modesty, and even the music I listen to has shifted as I’ve grown in faith. Spoiler alert: there might be a few giggles along the way, because, well, it’s me.

The Journey to Understanding True Beauty

Growing up, I always thought beauty was something to be achieved through external appearances. Makeup was my go-to tool to create a “perfect” version of myself. I used it to cover imperfections, enhance my features, and, if I’m being honest, sometimes it was about gaining attention and approval. But as I grew in my relationship with God, He began to open my eyes to something far deeper than just the surface level.

Through prayer, reflection, and study of His word, I came to realise that true beauty is not about what we can cover up or change on the outside. It’s about the transformation that takes place within us. God started showing me that the way I viewed beauty was often shaped by the world’s standards, pride, seduction, and the desire for validation. The world’s definition of beauty is fleeting and often leads us to feel insecure, always chasing after the next trend, the next best thing. But when God reveals the truth to us, it’s liberating. I began to see that the beauty God sees in us is not something we create, but something that radiates from our hearts as we live in alignment with His will.

Makeup and Modesty

For many, makeup is a personal choice, and there’s nothing inherently wrong with it. However, as I deepened my relationship with Christ, I started to feel changed about how I used makeup. It wasn’t just about enhancing my features anymore, it became about hiding parts of myself. It became a mask. That’s when I realised that God was calling me to embrace my natural beauty, to stop hiding behind layers of makeup, and to step into the woman He created me to be.

I’ve found that when I focus on nurturing my inner beauty, by cultivating a heart that seeks God’s will, living a life of modesty, and aligning my actions with His truth, I feel more beautiful than I ever did with a full face of makeup. It’s a process, and it hasn’t been easy, but every step has been worth it.

Modesty, too, has taken on a new meaning for me. The world tells us to dress in a way that attracts attention, to wear clothes that are revealing or tight, and to express our sexuality through fashion. But as I read the Bible, I began to understand that God calls us to dress modestly, not out of shame, but out of respect for our bodies and for Him. I’ve learned that modesty isn’t about hiding who we are; it’s about honouring the body God gave us, showing respect for ourselves and others. It’s about valuing our worth beyond external appearance, remembering that we are made in God’s image and that our beauty is meant to reflect Him, not the trends of the world.

Music

Another area where God has opened my eyes is in the music I listen to. Music has always been a huge part of my life, but as I’ve grown spiritually, I realise that the lyrics and the messages I allow into my mind and heart can greatly impact my thoughts and actions. For a long time, I listened to music that reflected worldly values, music that was often filled with messages of lust, anger, and rebellion. But when I invited God into my life, He began to reveal to me that a lot of what I had been listening to wasn’t aligned with His truth.

The shift wasn’t immediate, and it wasn’t easy. Letting go of certain artists, songs, and genres that I had been attached to for so long felt like a loss at first. But I quickly discovered that there was a deeper joy in worshiping God through music that lifts His name up, music that speaks to my spirit in a way that secular music never could. I found comfort in hymns, worship songs, and gospel music, and my heart was filled with peace as I listened to lyrics that glorify God instead of the things of this world.

Change

One thing I’ve learned on this journey is that change takes time. It’s a process of shedding the old self and becoming more aligned with the woman God created me to be. Sometimes, it’s difficult. There are moments when I miss certain things, like the music I used to love or the way I used to express myself through makeup. But God has shown me that as I let go of the things that the world tells me are important, He fills me with something far greater, His peace, His joy, and a sense of freedom that comes from walking in His truth.

I’ve also realised that modesty, makeup, and music are just a few of the ways God works in our lives to refine us. He’s not concerned with outward appearances but with the condition of our hearts. As we draw nearer to Him, He will continue to reveal more to us, refine our desires, and help us live a life that brings glory to His name.

 

If you’re on a similar journey, I want to encourage you: it’s okay to let go of the things that once defined you. It’s okay to embrace the changes God is making in your life. His plan for you is so much greater than anything this world can offer, and as you allow Him to refine you, you will experience a beauty that radiates from the inside out. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, and that is the truest beauty of all.

So this is the inside scoop on how God’s been refining my definition of beauty, and how He’s been teaching me to look past the makeup and all the things I thought I needed to “fix” about myself. It’s been a journey, and, honestly, there have been a few bumps along the way. 

Behind the scenes of all this, it wasn’t just a flick of the brush or a few scripture verses that made me see things differently. It was real life, like getting into those quiet moments with God, wrestling with old habits (like buying makeup just because it was on sale), and learning how to embrace who I am without the “extras” I thought I needed. And let’s just say, there were some days where I didn’t feel like the most radiant version of myself – but slowly, bit by bit, I’ve been learning to love the natural me. Not the version I thought the world expected, but the version God created.

So, next time you feel the need to throw on a bit more makeup or maybe skip a day of feeling “good enough,” just take a minute. Take a deep breath. And remember that the true beauty you’ve got inside you is far more precious than anything you can paint on. You’re fearfully and wonderfully made, and that’s something you can carry with you all day, no matter what’s in your makeup bag.

Thanks for hanging out with me today, darling. I hope you found a little peace, a few giggles, and maybe a new perspective on what it means to be truly beautiful. Go on, darling – go shine. 

Sending blessings to you!
Scherise. X