Let me take you back to when I first discovered the power of mindset and manifestation.

I was in my early 20s, fresh grad, made my mother and grandparents proud, walking up on stage to claim my qualification. But once I came off stage life changed, my friendships changed, many girls were getting pregnant, settling down and my life was just beginning.

Eventually, after a not-so-flying start, I found myself at a tech company, one day on this awful commute, (it really was horrendous).

I had to get on three different trains before getting off into central London. I began to wonder … ‘how did I end up here?’…

How did I end up… muting myself down on multiple occasions, going through daily forms of microaggressions, getting underpaid, but still doing multiple hours of overtime in a job that I hated! Then stuffing myself with unhealthy food and dragging myself out to parties and clubs I hated! because I had an issue with saying no…

It got to the point where my demeaning day-to-day routine, lack of fulfillment, crushing self-esteem, and daily cries to sleep became too much. I felt stuck! I wanted to have more control of my life. I wanted to have some kind of business, something to call my own. I wanted to make an impact of some kind, but I was so stuck and I felt I had no alternative but to keep plotting away with my daily routine.

Oh, and you never guess what!?

One day I was called into my manager’s office, none of my team knew what it was about when I entered the room. There sat my manager looking very awkward and a man which I had never seen before with a very stern look on his face. When I sat down my manager, who always seemed switched on, happy and excited! (Maybe she was always high on coffee, till this day I will never know) anyway today she looked mega awkward! Her usual freshly tanned face, was awfully red today…

As I sat down she proceeded to tell me that the company had to make some cuts and so I was being made redundant. I was horrified!

After losing that job, I made it my job to find another. And it took me almost 8 months, but my new job was starting me from the bottom again, but the point is I was making money… right!?

At this new job, I was made multiple promises and long story short! The company loved me in the position I was in and wanted me to stay there, they would hire new people, get me to train them up, and promote them three levels higher than myself. When I stood up for myself I was made to feel like I was wrong, then stitched up, and sacked. I was desperate for something else, anything that did not involve me working for someone else again.

That was when I started networking hard. (As an introvert)

And eventually started my marketing agency!

However, after a while, I grew to hate this agency! But I still soldiered on!

One day I went to the doctor. After pulling an all-nighter to finish some work for one of my marketing clients, I managed to pop a blood vessel in one of my eyes. I remember the doctor asking me…

‘What is your lifestyle like? And what do you do for a living, Scherise?’

And I remember saying… ‘Well I own a marketing agency, I go to a lot of networking events, I am looking at buying a house, I am doing my driving lessons at night time (it was the only time I had) and I go to the gym frequently…’

When I had finished rolling off my list, the doctor simply turned and said,

‘Scherise your blood pressure is too high for your age, you have to change you cannot keep going the way you are!’

So I promised I would change.

The next day I Immediately broke the promise!, as I continuously used the Mel Robbins, 5-second rule, to drag myself out of bed earlier! Instead of going to the gym at 6 am I was now going to the gym at 4 am, this was my solution to help with my problem the doctor had pointed out.

One day while on the treadmill and listening to a normal business & finance podcast.

I had my normal goal to hit one hour on the treadmill. When I was roughly 8 minutes away from my goal, my podcast episode that I was listening to finished, In an attempt not to lose my focus on the treadmill. I quickly jabbed at my phone without looking at what I had clicked. The voice that I was listening to suddenly changed from male to female, from fast to slow, from hyped to mellow and calm.

It was from that day that I started learning about meditation, yoga, crystals, and designing vision boards. Although I still did not understand how to really use all of these tools to design my life. For a vision board, for example, I had no issue designing it, but I had so many issues manifesting it.

So I started reading more!

I dived into books around the topic of manifestation, money, self-love, confidence, mindset, and the law of attraction. I was determined to actually make my vision board a reality and craft my life.

I fully immersed myself in this journey of manifesting, nurturing, and my own healing of abandonment and trauma from a child and the struggles of my career.

I knew something was changing and that I would be okay. I knew my current reality was not how it would always be.

Fast forward till now I am a podcast host, I have a business far bigger than I would have ever imagined, I have coached multiple females around the world and helped them build their dream business, I am engaged to an amazing guy (and at the time of writing this we are currently planning our wedding and viewing new homes…). I also founded ASL, The Scherise Saskia coaching brand, and I now craft my life with the understanding that it will be how I desire it to be.

Understanding That You Are Worthy Of All That You Desire Is A Key To Manifesting.

All of the knowledge I have consumed around manifesting, self-love, confidence, mindset, all opened up doors for me to really explore my personal purpose in this world. I began to understand that all this knowledge and all of the bad times, trauma, disaster moments I went through could be channeled. I could become someone who helped other women who were in need of support or guidance after also finding themselves with low confidence, low self-worth, or even loss. Seeing women start designing their lives and go for what they really want is so rewarding. I am so grateful to be in this position and this is what I want to share with you.

The Co-creating Goddess Program, encapsulates all the tools, strategies, and practices that have helped me to become the woman I needed to be to create a vast amount of abundance in my life.

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