Hello, darlings!

Welcome back to the blog, Ah, motherhood. The beautiful, often chaotic, and at times completely overwhelming journey that we’re blessed to be on. As mums, we wear so many hats—loving caregivers, multitaskers, homemakers, and sometimes even trying to be the glue that holds everything together. In the middle of all this, it’s so easy to feel like we’re constantly running on empty. The demands of our children, work, housework, and all the other responsibilities can quickly pile up, leaving us feeling drained and, yes, frustrated. And when we feel overwhelmed, it’s not uncommon for a little anger to rear its head. Perhaps you’ve snapped at your little one for something small or felt your patience wear thin when things don’t go as planned. You might even feel guilty for getting angry at your children when all they really want is your love and attention.

But, darling, I want to remind you today that your anger does not define you. It’s okay to feel overwhelmed and frustrated at times, it’s part of the human experience. The good news? God’s grace is there for you in every moment, especially the ones that feel the most challenging. His love covers your flaws, and He is always ready to help you navigate those difficult emotions. In today’s post, I want to dive into how we can learn to embrace our emotions, take control of our reactions, and move forward in motherhood with a heart full of grace, love, and patience. Let’s remember that every day is a new chance to grow, and there is hope for every angry mum. So, take a deep breath, grab a cup of tea (or two!), and let’s chat about how we can all find peace and healing in our mothering journey.

1. Anger Doesn’t Define You

Being angry doesn’t make you a bad mother. We all have moments where our patience runs thin, where we feel like we can’t handle everything, or where we lash out at the people we love the most. But here’s the good news: you can choose to respond differently. God has designed you with the ability to change, grow, and be improved by His love.

In the Bible, we are reminded that “A soft answer turns away wrath” (Proverbs 15:1). This verse has a powerful reminder for us as mothers: responding with gentleness and kindness is not just possible, it’s something we can strive to do every day. But this takes practice. It takes prayer. And it takes knowing that when we mess up, we can come to God for forgiveness and strength.

2. Take Time for Yourself and Pray

When you’re feeling angry, it’s important to take a step back. Give yourself some space, even if it’s just for a few minutes. Whether it’s closing your eyes, stepping outside for a breath of fresh air, or taking a moment to pray, give yourself the grace to reset and calm down.

Prayer is powerful. When you’re struggling, remember to ask God for the strength to respond with love and patience. He’s there to help you through every moment. You don’t have to go through this alone.

3. Change Takes Time

If you’ve grown up in a home where yelling and anger were the norms, or if you’ve had negative patterns of communication in your own home, changing those habits takes time. But change is possible. God can help you break these cycles and give you the wisdom to handle difficult situations with a gentle spirit.

Start by acknowledging your feelings of anger and choosing to act differently. You can memorize scripture, like Proverbs 15:1, and remind yourself of it when you feel the anger building. This will help you to stay grounded in God’s truth and respond in a way that honours Him and your family.

4. There’s Grace for the Struggles

If you’ve lost your temper, said something hurtful, or been frustrated with your children, don’t beat yourself up. God’s grace is available for you in those moments, and you can always ask for His forgiveness. Your journey as a mother isn’t about being perfect. It’s about trusting God with your struggles, allowing Him to shape your heart, and relying on His strength to change.

Remember, you’re not alone. So many mothers are walking this path with you, struggling with the same things, and learning together. I want to encourage you to keep going. Each day is a new chance to do better, to choose peace over anger, and to reflect God’s love to your children.

5. You Are Not Defined by Your Anger

Above all, remember this: You are not defined by your anger. Your identity as a mother, and as a beloved child of God, is not dependent on whether you yell or stay calm all the time. What matters is that you keep striving, keep praying, and keep trusting God to help you grow.

There is hope for every angry mother. God is ready to help you, and He’s never disappointed in you. No matter what you’re facing, there is always hope for change, healing, and growth. Trust in His promises, and remember that He is with you through it all.

As we continue to grow in our role as mothers, let’s commit to seeking peace, grace, and strength from God every single day. Your children need your love, your gentle spirit, and your patience. And with God’s help, you will be able to give that to them, even on the tough days.

Remember:

• There is always hope for change, healing, and growth.
• God is ready to help you, and He’s never disappointed in you.
• You can reflect God’s love for your children, even on the tough days.
• Keep seeking peace, grace, and strength from God each day. With His help, you’ll be able to give your children the love, patience, and gentleness they need.

I hope today’s blog post has given you a bit of encouragement and a reminder that your identity as a mother is not defined by the moments when anger or frustration takes over. In fact, it’s in those moments that God’s grace shines brightest He’s not disappointed in you, and He’s not asking you to be perfect. The reality of motherhood is that there will be ups and downs, days when we feel like we’ve got it all together, and days when we’re on the struggle bus. But through it all, God is with us, offering us the strength, wisdom, and peace we need to move forward.

Remember, change takes time. Don’t expect to have it all figured out overnight. Take those small steps, whether it’s taking a moment to pray, offering a gentle response, or simply acknowledging your feelings and asking God for help. There’s no shame in being human. We’re all on this journey together, and we’re all learning how to mother with grace, love, and a good dose of patience. So, let’s give ourselves grace when we fall short, knowing that each new day is an opportunity to grow and improve.

I’m sending you blessings, prayers, and a whole lot of love. Keep moving forward. You’re doing great, and with God’s help, you can handle whatever comes your way. Remember: your children need your love, your kindness, and your gentle spirit, and God has equipped you to offer just that, one day at a time.

Until next time, keep seeking His peace, strength, and joy in your motherhood journey.

Sending blessings to you!

Scherise. X