In today’s world, it can be so easy to get swept up in the hustle, the pressure, and the idea that “doing it all” is the norm. But as a believer, I’ve come to realise that our approach to family, marriage, and parenting has to be grounded in something much deeper than worldly ideals. Through my own journey of growth and learning, I’ve seen the beauty and wisdom in the Bible’s guidance on family, and I want to share a bit of that here.
Prioritising
One of the first lessons God has laid on my heart is the importance of making my spouse a priority. When we invest time and energy into our marriage, we’re not only strengthening our bond but modelling a Christ-centered relationship for our children. Kids observe and absorb everything, from the way we speak to one another to how we handle stress and joy. I want to be the kind of wife that my daughter would aspire to be, and I want my husband to be the kind of man our son would respect and admire. It’s a powerful legacy to leave.
Embracing Grace and Surrender in Marriage
But marriage, like faith, requires a continual surrender. It’s not about being perfect but about showing grace, patience, and forgiveness, even when it’s hard. There are so many moments where I’ve had to put aside my own expectations or let go of my own pride. It’s about staying committed and choosing to love, even when the world might say to walk away. The beauty of marriage, as I’ve discovered, isn’t in the absence of conflict or mistakes but in the way we grow closer to God and each other through them.
Seeing Children as Blessings, Not Burdens
And that brings me to parenting. Our children are not burdens but blessings, little miracles entrusted to us by God. In a world that often views children as interruptions to success, it’s so crucial for us to shift our perspective. Raising children isn’t about fitting them into our busy schedules or hoping they’ll grow up quickly. It’s about nurturing, teaching, and loving them as God calls us to. seeing them as gifts with a divine purpose and potential.
Shifting Away from Worldly Messages
Of course, unlearning some of the world’s messages hasn’t been an easy road. Society bombards us with the idea that joy comes from achievements, material things, or the validation of others. But true joy, I’ve found, comes from living in alignment with God’s purpose for us. It’s about finding peace in Him and His promises, rather than in the fleeting satisfaction of worldly success. It’s about choosing gratitude and contentment in every season of life.
Unconditional Love
There’s also something incredibly powerful in letting go of the notion that love is conditional. God’s love for us is unconditional, and He calls us to reflect that love in our relationships. That doesn’t mean tolerating mistreatment or neglecting our boundaries, but it does mean striving to love our families as He loves us: selflessly, kindly, and with forgiveness.
Walking the Path with Faith
Walking this path isn’t always easy, and there are days when I stumble. But with each step, I feel God guiding me, teaching me, and refining my heart. I am grateful for His wisdom and the blessing of being able to create a home filled with His love and grace. Through this journey, I’m reminded that everything I do, whether in my marriage, parenting, or daily walk is ultimately for His glory.
A Life Lived for His Glory
In a world that may not understand the peace and purpose found in a Christ-centered home, I know that every moment, every sacrifice, is worthwhile. This journey isn’t just about building a family; it’s about fulfilling God’s purpose for my life and creating a legacy of faith for those who come after me.
Speak soon, my darling.
Scherise.X
